Softening

Softening

You know when you are hardened.   You can feel the edges brusque.  But it can be so hard to soften in the moment.  To allow the softening. The hardening is there, for a reason, probably good reason.  It’s protecting something.  You have to have the courage to choose the softening, over the protecting yourself.  This […]

Perfectionism

Perfectionism

There is so much self help published in the world right now. Everyone and their sweet mama is a guru of the feel goods, publishing memes and books and e-courses faster than the grass can welcome spring. This is mostly good-ish, right? It pushes more positivity into our collective unconscious and encourages us to grow […]